We know you are very angry with your father and I, understandably so. We believe someday when you become a momma you will understand what lengths a parent will go to to protect their child. Like a momma bear...all teeth showing taking no prisoners.
We know you want to be on your own and make your own way. That is exactly what we want for you. For you to be on YOUR own. We understand why you don't want to be here in Jackson and that is fine. But, it doesn't take that man for you to be on your own. You are a bright, intelligent beautiful girl, with a lot to offer. You have a lifetime ahead of you. What do you want out of your life? Think about that.
Food for thought
- Remember how happy you were before that man? What is your happiness level now?
- Remember all those things you told us about that man.
- Remember all the things you told your friends about that man. Were those all lies? If so then you were lying about that man, who you love? Does that even make sense?
- If all those things you told us and your friends were lies about that man who is the love of your life then wouldn't that man be hurt by your words.
- Think about this, that man is 35 years old. What does he have to show for his 35 years? How has he contributed to society. How do you see your future with that man based upon his previous 35 years?
- Don't you think you deserve the fairy tale life with someone who adores you?
- Don't you think you deserve the fairy tale wedding?
- Don't you think you deserve to be happy?
- Don't you think you deserve to keep all your family? Didn't that man tell you what he wanted in life was family, like you have? Then why is he tearing you away from your family?
- Don't you think you deserve to have a life coach councilor help you through these emotional times? Hollywood we have lost too many family and friends this last year. It is going to take a lot of time to heal for all of us.
- Don't you think you deserve to have time to yourself to think all of this through, so that you know your decisions are being made with a clear head? Why can't he give you time to get on your feet emotionally? Reasonable people would want a decision so big as love and being a couple being made by emotionally stable person.
Has he told you he will take care of you and that he is the only one who truly loves you? Remember you are loved by many.
Has he told you we abandanded you?
- Remember third grade icky teacher? We supported you.
- Remember that aweful pink paint job in your room? We supported you.
- Remember Hitler Principal? We supported you.
- Remember your last swim on swim team? We supported you.
- Remember Tucson? We supported you.
- Remember big dark friend of Jesus boy before Tucson? We supported you.
- Remember dark hair bike bar b q boy. We supported you.
- Remember dumb job at village. We supported you.
- Remember drama queens at long time work. We supported you.
We will ALWAYS support you! We would NEVER abandan you. Never!
Hollywood it is not too late to change your mind. You don't have to stay in your current situation, you have choices.
When you are ready to go your own way, we will support you. No questions asked. Haven't we always.
Know that you are not EVER alone. Help moving on with your life as YOU see fit is a phone call away. Check out the website I posted a link to. http://www.youarenotcrazy.com/
Did you notice the picture on this page is the Gross Ventre by where we camp?
We love you! We miss you!
Mom
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